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3 golden rules to attract men and be
successful
Nowadays we are so bombarded with images of perfect looking women on
magazines, TV, movies that many women think that unless they look
like them, they are not really good enough. Some go to great lengths
to improve their physical appearance whilst others sink into sadness
or depression because they have come to believe that they haven’t
got what it takes to attract men and/or be successful in life.
Needless to say, this type
of self-defeating belief does no good for their self-esteem and many
become trapped in a self-fulfilling prophecy that makes them sink
deeper and deeper into negative emotions.
But the reality is that
first of all the girls that we see on magazines etc. have been
selected amongst thousands and they do not represent the average
girl. It would be like an average person comparing himself or
herself to a professor in Mathematics from Cambridge University and
then say that he or she is not really good enough to succeed in life
because s/he doesn’t have a mathematical brain that can compare to
that professor. Nobody in the right mind would come to this
conclusion. But when it comes to physical beauty, lots of women and
young girls feel that they need to be as good as that professor, who
rather than being a professor of mathematics is a professor of
beauty.
There actually are other
attributes that are more important for the development of a person
than mere physical beauty. I will spare you a list of these, as I am
sure that you can come up with a very long list yourself. However I
will point out three golden rules to be successful and attract men.
These will probably help you understand why some average looking or
even ‘not so good looking women’ are very successful with the
opposite sex.
1.
Be confident
Nothing attracts
people more than confidence. A person who comes across as being
confident (without being arrogant) and happy within herself has a
magnetic charm that is hardly resistible.
2.
Be positive
This really goes
without saying. If you look miserable and sound miserable, people
will just simply avoid you. You may be a lovely person indeed, but
nobody wants to spend time with a person who comes across as being
negative, or bitter and twisted or who keeps complaining about
everything. If you recognise some of your traits in this, do
something about it to change the way you come across. NLP programmes
or books can help you to refocus your energy and give it a positive
spin. Honestly, you really have to start being positive!
3.
Feel sexy
If you feel sexy, you will be perceived as being sexy. This
is because when you truly feel that way, your entire body language
gives out those hot vibes. This does not mean engaging in an
overly-flirtascious behaviour (to put it politely!!!), it just means
that the way you feel will be projected out with confidence and
people will just want to be around you to capture you. There are
also things that you can do to help yourself feel that way, such as
wearing some lingerie and a dress that whilst being classy also
emphasises your assets.
If you can apply the three golden rules, there will be no stopping
you…
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