What are the things that
most women go for in a man besides the good looks? Here are 10 tips
to attract women.
IMPORTANT: You do not need to be particularly good
looking or rich to get a woman. If you know how to behave and know
what to say, you can go a very long way with most women.
Women are attracted to men who look confident (not to be
mistaken with arrogance), in control, comfortable and at ease in
any situation and environment. Confidence is one of the most
important traits in a man. Remember,
women it is mostly a psychological game!
Again, this is not to be confused with arrogance. A charming man
is a man who is relaxed, funny, slightly flirtatious (not
sleazy!) and a good entertainer (although not a clown!).
- Good manners.
If you are rude, ignorant and do not know how to behave in
public, you would be considered as a simple embarrassment. Women
would not want to be associated with you and in most cases would
avoid you like the plague.
- Savoire faire.
Women love attention. This is a fact. They love to feel that
they are the most important and precious thing ever. If you want
to get a woman, you must show her attention. You must be careful
not to over-do it though. If you over-do it, she will loose
interest. You must pay her a compliment every now and then,
offer her a drink (or whatever), show her some attention for a
while, but you must also give your attention to other people
(i.e. you must never give the impression of being desperate. The
moment you do, she will loose interest). You must leave her with
the feeling of wanting more from you.
- Look clean and
smell nice. Most women are
really put off by a man who looks scruffy or dirty or that can
be smelled from a distance! Avoid bathing in cheap aftershave or
use half a bottle of deodorant. That is SERIOUSLY off putting.
Use, sparingly, only expensive aftershave (avoid cheap and nasty
stuff: women can tell!) and bit of good and non-overpowering
deodorant (i.e. if you leave a strong trail, you have over-done
- Tell interesting
stories. Women respond very
well to conversation. They love to hear funny anecdotes or cool
short stories (e.g. adventures you or your friends have had
etc). AVOID long monologues or giving too many details when
telling stories. This is not considered as ‘interesting
conversation’ but as ‘boring and agonising listening session’.
DO NOT go there.
- Listen to her.
Show a real interest in the things that she is saying. When
women talk, they share a part of themselves, being that dreams,
experiences, feelings etc. When they do that, they feel they
have connected with you. Women detest men who do listen to
them. It seriously infuriates them.
- Wear an expensive
watch. This is perhaps not
essential to all women, although most women would notice your
watch (especially a Rolex). Whatever you do, DO NOT make a blatant reference to your
expensive watch if you are wearing one. Men who do that are
classified as cheap. Let the woman discover your watch by
herself. You can be certain that she will!!!
- Buy a Sport car.
Most women do like sport and expensive cars and would be very pleased if they
attracted a man who had one (Mercedes, or Porsche, or similar). Once again, your attitude is vital
in this. DO NOT brag about it. That would not be cool. You MUST
BE COOL about it. Let her find out about it. Be certain that she
will, and when she does she will be very impressed by the fact
that you haven’t bragged about it (although she may not tell you
that). By you being cool about the expensive things you possess
(such as an expensive watch or sport car), she will assume that
these things are normal for you. That will make you look
cooler and even more desirable.
Take her to
expensive places, at least occasionally.
And pay for it! If you spend money on a woman, she will feel
that you really appreciate her. However, be careful not to
scrutinise the bill too much when it arrives. A quick glance is
more than enough. Otherwise she will think that you are tight
with your money, and women HATE men who are tight with their
money. Tightness with money is one of the worse traits that a
man could possible have!