SPEED DATING: GETTING A MAN IN THE NEW MILLENNIUM
Long gone are the days in which finding love was just a matter of chance.
Nowadays many of the women who concentrate on their career and
gaining their financial independence find themselves reaching their
thirties having been through several relationships but ending up
being single. Who can then afford leaving love to chance?
More and more women are resolving to use the same determination and
business approach that has served them so well in their careers.
After all, they never expected to have a good career without putting
effort in. Why should finding a loving and lasting relationship be
The advantage of being in their thirties is that most women at that
age have figured out the type of life that they want to have and the
type of man that would suit their personality and aspirations. Men
are evaluated from different angles, according to the type of life
that the woman wants to lead. If she wants to have children, for
instance, she will be looking for someone who, amongst other things,
would make a good father.
So the question now is, how do they go about finding the man they
are looking for?
There are different options all of which involve being proactive and
not waiting around for things to happen. One of the most popular
options at present in the UK is what is called Speed Dating. If
there is nothing of the sort in your country, well, here's a
business idea for you!
Speed Dating events are held in upmarket bars, which make a very
good atmosphere. Each 'date' lasts 3 minutes. After this time the
girl moves on to chatting to the next guy (or vice versa) for
another 3 minutes and so on until everyone has chatted with
everyone. Every person is given a score card where they can write
who they would like to see again. Then people are provided with
e-mail details of any mutual matches. Then it is left to the matched
couple to decide when and where to meet.
The key is to keep trying and being proactive until the 'right
person' is found.